Ever believed there is this one special person just destined to be with you?
Most forms of media have fed us the idea that each of us has this one person whom we’re fated to be with. They’re not wrong. We all have that one person who we spend the rest of our life readying ourselves to meet. Each and every moment in our life, all the things we learn, all the relationships we’ve had, all of these are the lessons we need to understand before we’re ready to meet our soul mates.
Finding one’s soul mate is probably the best thing ever and it will leave you feeling, like a part of you that has always been missing, has finally fallen into place. There is no reasonable explanation for how connected you feel to that person. You will be able to love them and trust them unconditionally.
How can you prove that this person is ‘the one’ for you?
You’ll be meeting all kinds of people every day and you will most likely even date some of them. But how can you tell whether one particular frog is going to turn into your soul mate when you kiss them? Read on to find out what indicators you need to look for when you think a partner might be ‘the one’.
1. You’ll get a feeling that can’t be explained
When you meet the person you are destined to be with, you will feel something you’ve never met before. As soon as you meet, you will feel inexplicably connected to that person. Your mind and body will push you towards them and you won’t be able to deny yourself the joy of having them in your life.
2. Both of you will have similar ambitions
As you begin to open up to each other, you’ll see that both of you share similar ambitions and interests. You might not be traveling on the same path but the destinations you are aiming for are more or less the same thing.
3. You like that both of you are different from each other
Just because you have similar aims doesn’t mean that you are both the same person. There will be things that are unique to each person and these differences will not put any distance between you both. You will see that it is not difficult to adjust to each other and there will even be times when you can use these differences to your advantage.
4. You will both be each other’s choices no matter how many times you are asked to choose
When you meet your soul mate, you will know for sure that what you feel for them is stronger than anything you’ve felt before. They will always be your choice no matter what situation you are in. It doesn’t matter that the two of you might be from completely different walks of life. You will always be their choice and they will always be yours.
5. You round each other off to perfection
No matter how different the two of you are from each other, you will still get along well together. Those differences will even work to your mutual advantage. For example, there might be times when one of you is scared but the other person isn’t and they’ll help you get through whatever it is you are frightened off.
6. You understand that private time is necessary
You don’t get jealous and insecure because both of you know that you cannot be together in everything. You each have your own life to live and you give each other freedom because you trust each other to stay faithful and not do anything to jeopardize the beautiful relationship you share.
7. Even the quiet times are good times
When the two of you are together you don’t need anything else. Even when you are sitting quietly together, you will be able to sense how connected you are to each other and that will be more than enough. You will understand that words aren’t everything and sometimes what is said through silence is more meaningful than anything something that is said out loud could ever be. You will know what people mean when they say silence is golden.
8. You will find each other just when you need to
There might be a lot of obstacles along the way and the two of you will definitely make a few mistakes before finding each other. You won’t meet each other right away because there are things you need to learn before you are able to accompany each other perfectly. Meeting your soul mate too soon might not work out for the best. Be patient and trust that the universe will bring you together when both of you are ready and the time is right.
9. You will be connected to each other
Once you’ve found your soul mate, you will be connected to each other in a way that you never thought possible. Despite the intensity of that connection, you will still feel like you have the freedom to be the person that you really are. This connection will help you communicate with each other clearly and accentuates the trust that forms the base of your relationship. No matter how distinct your personalities are, you will be able to understand each other even without words. Even if you aren’t a natural empath, you are empaths for each other.
10. You may have met them earlier
This interaction won’t have the same intensity that your destined meeting will have but you will find out that you have both crossed paths with each other more than once. You could have visited the same location, been students of the same college, etc. However, you will only meet as soul mates when you are ready.