Want to make an Aquarius man miss you like crazy?
You’ve come to the right place.
Apply what you learn in this article and he’ll crave you endlessly.
Who’s this guide made for?
- You’re single, into him, and there’s already some level of established chemistry between you.
- You’re together, but the relationship has severely cooled off or even ended. You’re looking to get his attention back.
Who is this guide isn’t made for:
- You’re looking to attract an Aquarius man for an initial date, but you haven’t already built a connection or established a relationship with him yet. I recommend that you learn the fundamentals of attracting an Aquarius man, first.
Sure, if you haven’t already established a connection with him yet, some of these tips could still help you out making him miss you. But it’s best to learn the whole strategy behind attracting an Aquarius man.
On “Making” him miss you
We all want to make our partners miss us. Especially when things aren’t going well and a spark is needed.
But trying to make someone do something is always an uphill battle. Especially when that someone is the notoriously stubborn fixed-sign Aquarius man.
You’ll notice this guide doesn’t focus much on forcing him or manipulating him to miss you.
Instead, most of my advice centers around changes and adaptations that you can adopt to leverage your feminine charms and passively lure him to you.
Do this first if you’re in a long-term relationship with him
If you’re in an LTR with your Aquarius man, chances are that you’re here because something is off and you want to add the spark back into your relationship.
Before you go making him miss you with the tips below, you should have an open conversation with him to see if there are any underlying issues going on concerning your relationship.
If things are going well overall with your Aqua man and you just want him to yearn for you more when you’re away, realize that some of the tips in this guide might be overkill.
Okay, on to the tips.
1. Don’t Crowd Him (Physically or Energetically)
When you’re feeling distant from your partner it’s understandable to want to grab his attention and put yourself back in his orbit.
The problem with this is that your response will likely be reactive and come from insecurities around fear of abandonment. Your intense urge to connect might only just push him away.
For women, bonding and closeness is a natural prerogative. Men need love and closeness, too. But the majority of men require ample amounts of space and individual time spent apart as well.
This is especially true of the Aquarian man. He loves his alone time. He wants independent space, even when he’s deeply in love. His number one pet peeve in relationships is when his partner doesn’t give him enough personal space.
For him to be happy in the relationship, his independence must be honored. This is just something you’ll have to accept with this man.
To make him miss you, you should provide him what he needs – space apart. Even more, you should encourage it.
Ample space and non-clingy energy are essential to this man. This distance will actually make him want to feel closer to you.
And think about this: how can he miss you if you’re not giving him the chance to? If you really want him to miss you, give him the time and space to miss you.
Yes, I know allowing space might feel like the hardest thing you could right now. And you might not even trust it. But I assure you – space apart is the most simple and potent way to make an Aquarius man miss you.
Top benefits of giving space and not crowding him:
- It displays confidence and independence.
- It sets the course for a healthy, positive relationship dynamic with your individualistic Aquarius man.
- It soothes his concerns about being crowded by a codependent partner.
- It gives him space to wonder about you.
- It gives you an opportunity to develop and establish a strong sense of self that’s independent of your Aquarius man’s affections.
- You’ll have so much to talk about when you do spend time together again.
TIP: Assess your own need for space. Do you honor your own independence, personal space and time spent alone? Do relationships cause you to neglect your friends, family, creativity or relationship with self? Do you rely too much on your partner to affirm your own identity?
If you want a happy, successful relationship with an Aquarian man, you must learn to be comfortable with some distance and have the ability to rely on yourself emotionally. If you need to learn how to confidently establish your own space, I have all the tips you’ll need in how to attract an Aquarius man (coming soon).
TIP: You don’t want to smother him, but you can him you miss him and then give him space. That’s just good communication. But keep it light, and never double text! Give him time to get back to you.
2. Limit Your Availability
If you’ve successfully avoided crowding him and embraced your time apart (and there truly is chemistry between you) he’ll start to miss you, wonder about you, and reach out.
When he does reach out, don’t jump all over him. If he texts, don’t respond immediately.
There’s no need to be super calculating about it. Just avoid responding back in the first 30 minutes or so. And if you’re truly busy? Don’t worry about getting back to him hours later.
By taking your time to respond to a text you send the signal that you have things going on and that you haven’t been anxiously waiting for him. That’s attractive.
No shame if you actually have been anxious to hear from him. That’s okay. You still want to reach out for him and show him you care. You just don’t want to send him any signal that he could potentially interpret as desperate or needy.
If he calls, let him know that you’ve missed him, share a little bit about what’s been up with you, talk about fun memories you’ve shared, and express that you’d like to meet up.
After that, end the conversation. Don’t try to talk forever. Let things flow for a bit, express your light and fun persona, then cut things off. Leave him wanting more.
If he didn’t miss you already, he definitely will after reaching out, and will want to meet up with you after a conversation like this.
Tip: Plan a day or night out with your friends for a change and let him know you won’t be free. This will not only make your Aquarius man miss you but you will also enjoy a night out with friends.
3. Do interesting things that he’ll notice
Maybe he’s already missing you a ton. But this guy is stubborn, so he might wait it out a bit. He could need some encouragement to reach out to you.
Give him that extra push to reach out to you by having your own fun experiences and/or working on personal hobbies and projects.
A good way to do this is to leverage social media to your advantage. Do cool things, and update any profiles you know that he follows.
Visual imagery is great for men. Post photos and maybe a little blurb about any fun experiences (bonus points if you go to places that you have shared experiences). Dress up nice, different than usual. Go have fun, be active and social.
He loves independent partners who do independent things, so this will definitely get him thinking about you and missing your presence.
Try to do things that would really impress him. Think unique, fun trips. Go on a quirky weekend trip by yourself or with friends. He won’t be able to resist following what you’re up to.
Top benefits of making him miss you by giving space and not crowding him:
- He will be intrigued by your go-getter independence and fun-loving vibe.
- You’ll show him that you’re capable of setting and achieving your own goals and can take care of yourself without him having to be with you.
- You’ll get him off your mind by getting yourself out into the world.
- You’ll have plenty of new, interesting stories to talk about when you meet up next.
Tip: Make sure to find interests and hobbies that truly appeal to you. A bonus of being active, occupied and independent is that you’ll start to miss him less. He will pick up on this and want to fill the gap by leaning into you.
4. Don’t try to forcibly make him miss you
Aquarius men prize authenticity and dislike manipulation. If he senses that you’re being inauthentic or dramatic to get his attention, he won’t like it.
Don’t fabricate social media posts or get caught trying to obviously grab his attention.
Avoid tagging him in posts, texting or calling mutual friends to see what he’s up to or staging obvious photos with other guys to stir jealousy.
Remember, the best way to get him to miss you is to give him space. This means being absent. You don’t need to constantly pop up in his feed for him to think about you and make him miss you.
Now, as I said in the last section, it’s fine to do and post fun things that will catch his attention. Just make sure what you’re doing is authentic and not made purely to put pressure on him.
Tip: If you don’t have them already, find fulfilling activities and interests to spend your time with. If you genuinely enjoy what you’re doing, then sharing it on social media won’t appear contrived or forced.
5. Capture his attention with a nostalgic scent
If you’ve followed my advice on how to attract an Aquarius man (guide coming soon), then you should have a scent or perfume that he’s associated with you and the pleasant experiences you’ve had together.
It could be a perfume, a type of incense, an essential oil blend, anything really.
To make him miss you, you can expose him to your scent while you’re not around. Find an item that you can imprint with your scent of choice. You could return some of his clothes to him, or gift him some new ones. You could make him a card. Or give him some item of yours that has meaning between you two.
Before giving it to him, add to it just enough of the scent to make him notice and think of you. When he smells it he won’t be able to resist being flushed with feelings associated with you.
Tip: Don’t overdo the application of your scent. Trust me, he will notice the smell. A little bit goes a long way. Too much, and he will see through what you’re doing and it won’t be a good look for you.
6. Leave behind little tokens and memorabilia
You can get a little cute if you want and leave behind little items. This could be in his car, home, work, etc.
Small innocuous items are the best, as they’re subtle and don’t send the signal that you’re trying to get his attention too much. Think hair clips, earrings, bracelets, necklaces, rings, etc.
Tip: If you’re not yet in a relationship and hang out, try to not leave behind items that would typically be associated with a relationship. For example, underwear, a toothbrush, or your perfume. You don’t want to make him think you’re trying to move in.
7. Remain a mystery to him
The Aquarius man loves a challenge. He likes his curiosity piqued. He’s a scientist, and everything is a science project to him.
It’s always good to keep a man on his toes by being a little mysterious. This is true no matter the stage or attraction level in the relationship.
Provide him this mystery him by occasionally withholding yourself, by teasing, by being aloof, by being playfully vague. Be the project that he can’t solve by constantly keep him guessing and on his toes.
If you succeed at this, he will always be wanting more from you and will be constantly curious about you and missing you when you’re not around.
Keeping the mystery alive in your relationship can be simple, but it takes some know-how that doesn’t always come naturally. I’ll show you how to maintain a tantalizing air of mystery in How to Attract an Aquarian Man.